Why go Pineapple?

To Swing or Not to Swing, That is the question

It will come as no surprise to anyone in the lifestyle that one of the most common questions we get asked from our vanilla counterparts is, “Why would you choose to be a swinger?” often followed by “But isn’t that cheating?”

Now there are many benefits to being in the lifestyle, and depending on on your journey you will have your own experiences of why and what keeps you coming back for more, so let’s talk about some of the key benefits of a pineapple lifestyle.

In no particular order

Communication on a whole new level: Swinging often requires couples to have deep, honest conversations about desires, boundaries, and expectations. Often during interactions swingers develop a better understanding of reading their partners and body language, now I’m not saying it’s perfect for everyone but we feel that to be successful in this lifestyle your communication needs to be on point and that is something special to be able to form a new level of communication and understanding of your partner.

Spicing Things Up: For many, the novelty and excitement of swinging can reignite sexual passion and prevent the relationship from becoming stale or more importantly it can allow those desires and fantasies the opportunity to come to fruition which can take your connections beyond the “normal”. It can bring variety to your sex life and introduce new experiences that may have been previously unspoken desires.

Personal Growth: Swinging can provide opportunities for personal growth, as partners may gain new insights into their sexuality, desires, or emotional needs. These experiences can lead to increased self-awareness and better overall relationship satisfaction.

Physical interactions: Of course, a bonus to the lifestyle is the opportunity to for physical interactions with individuals/ couples outside of your relationship or beyond a vanilla life, these physical interactions can build confidence and often lead to some epic memories being made.

Last but certainly not least and for us, probably the biggest thing is the connections and friendships that can be made, this lifestyle is diverse and it brings people together who may not have interacted in a vanilla world, it can be an environment of less judgement and more welcoming, not always but we find it’s more the case then not. The friendships we have made with both pants-on and pants-off friends are what we cherish the most, sex comes and goes but you often find some special and important people to share your journey with.

This is just a glimpse of the good that comes from a pineapple lifestyle and whilst we believe it’s great, it may not be suitable or relatable to your journey, we would love to hear from you and see what you enjoy most about this lifestyle.